Here's a rhetoric question. When two people are role playing and having on-line sex, how are they not having sex? They're both filling each others sexual needs, and both masturbate to relieve sexual pressure. I don't think it's strictly necessary for them to masturbate for it to pass as sex. But it's still sex. Two or more people satisfying each others sexual needs.

This reminds me of an Iranian girl a friend was fucking who only wanted to get fucked in the ass, because she wanted to stay a virgin until she got married.

Let's not change the meaning of the word "sex" because we want to feel like we're not being unfaithful or breaking various sexual taboos.

If we want our partner to be faithful, it's not body parts being inserted into orifices that our greatest concern, its always the shared intimacy, the bonding. This does not need penises and vaginas.

Am I right or am I right?