This is a very interesting topic, dav4jon,

There are some wonderful replies to your question. Like some of the others have written, online experience has been most valuable for me. It's given me an insight into this highly erotic world and it's helped me understand the needs i have, along with how i can go about experimenting and taking care of those needs.

i truly believe trust is very important in this kind of relationship, though. For without it, you are only going through the motions - you're not being true to the one who has accepted you and you're not being totally honest with yourself.

So much needs to happen in order for an online relationship to work. Once you find that middle ground, the possibilities are endless.

It's very nice to meet everyone. i'm enjoying myself so very much as i read all of the threads.