Quote Originally Posted by VixeyandPhoenix View Post
Firstly, congratulations!
My Master and I have been married for 7 months now, and we are very very happy. We own a house, have 2 dogs, plan on having babies... and we plan on keeping the kinky aspects of our relationship no matter what. Obviously the more visual and sexual things have to be kept behind locked doors with children in the house, but the possibilities are still pretty vast.
It's very comforting to have the two "lifestyles" if you will, co-exist (marriage/family/etc, and BDSM). I like knowing not only that I have a husband I adore, but also that my respect and obedience will be rewarded and I will not be permitted to behave badly. It's a sense of security for me, and a very complementary balance for us both.

When we got married I changed my last name to his, and told him that I feel it's the "ultimate collar" to have his name instead of the one I first came to him with

-slave Vixey
Congrats to you!!! It must be so wonderful to wake up every morning with your husband and owner...And on that note, when me and my owner get married, other than changing my last name, he is giving me a middle name, b/c Im cuban and I dont have one. So he is literally naming me, if that isnt ownership I dont know what is. Can you tell Im very excited
So yes, I think marriage and BDSM are a great mix!