wow this thread makes me wonder too, if there are som hidden tendencies to switch somewhere inside me, as since i read it for the first time, ideas keep popping up in my head. In fact, at the beginning of me trying to figure out what my desires really were, i ended up in a roleplay with a more than stupid wannabe dom which suddenly became pretty submissive. i played it a long way to show him that what he had tried on me was not really dominating but rather making me laugh. stil lit did not turn me on. I wonder if it is more that i know what i like used on me, how i like to be treated and can imagine how to use it best on others? as far as I can tell this was nothing sexual for me, still it was fun and perhaps I did just not jet meet the right submissive...

to answer the original question: i´d propably make him/her as hot as I possibly could while denying orgasm for quite a while and then make him/her orgasm from a mixture of pleasure and pain.

Oops. Now you know what my phantasies turn around a lot.
*blushing a little*