We were at a munch and they were discussions sessions at play parties. They would go into detail on the BD/sm but not there was never talk about intercourse. Is there a separation of the two specifically at a play party (meaning no intercourse)?

Good topic . . .we were wondering about that -sex and BDsm. I've always thought of them together, but as I am learning, new to BDsm, I find that it seems that it seems less about intercourse, but more about the pain.