Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
Again, my experience is that it is going to lunch or dinner with a group of people. If that group is into sports, you can talk about a lot of topics and no one rolls there eyes when someone talks about the local team.

My munch group talks about a lot of things, and yes, a lot of the commentary broaches on bdsm, but not all of it... but when it does, no one gasps and looks at you in horror. You get to be with a group of people who are, at the least, tolerant of bdsm play.

Maybe it's because my munch group isn't open to all comers. They keep the locale private and you have to meet a lead member first. It keeps the predators and hook-up artists away.
I'm actually considering starting the same kind of thing in Stockholm. Only through invitation and at our place. We have a big central apartment, and it's a loft, so nobody can look in... We're not really into having sex parties because it has a tendency to get a bit uptight... and discussions aren't as interesting. What we where planning on having, is only inviting slutty and fun people with BDSM interest, and have it grow from there.

I'm getting bored with organising BDSM parties. It's not that they aren't fun.... but it's just such a lot of work!!! It takes days.... and I'm not making any money from it... This is a whole lot more low key, and therefore more fun for me.