When I first entered my relationship with my boyfriend I was not experienced in any area of bdsm. After a while he introduced certain areas of bdsm to me especially restraint. He forced me to wear a chastity belt for two weeks and it was painful especially since I had never worn one before. It was frustrating, painful, and humiliating. I eventually became used to it. Eventually I was able to wear one for a month. It was still sometimes painful and humiliating but I learned to enjoy it sometimes.