It's been awhile since I've written about Nat and my playtime, but each session brings me joy and happiness.

We've grown as pet and miss, and Nat has made huge steps in understanding how I want him to communicate with me.

Recently, in the middle of a scene, I gave Nat a choice of two things I wanted to do, and asked him to pick one.
Now I knew that one of those choices I would enjoy much more than he.

Such a question in the past would have set his mind spinning, trying to figure out if I wanted him to "suffer" or not. This time, my sweet angel didn't hesitate. He chose the one he wanted to do knowing
a. he could
b. it wasn't a test
and
c. I wouldn't have asked him to choose if I wanted one thing over another.

By making a decision and letting me know what he wanted, he has overcome a huge hurdle.

In the past, such a question would have produced a response that I was his Miss and it was my right to choose, whatever I wanted... and other rehearsed mumblings.

While some dom/mes prefer this type of answer, not me. If I ask a question where a choice is involved, I'm not playing a mind game. I want to hear my pet's choice.

For example, if I say, "Do you want to wear the blue or red shirt?", the answer had better be what my pet wants, because that's what he'll be wearing. Otherwise, I would have just chosen the shirt and told my pet to put it on.

A big congratulations to my wonderful pet, Nathaniel!