Having been subjected to both Russell's (BJ during) and Whipetts (BJ before) by my OH, I have to say I definitely prefer the former and I find these elements of bathroom control more of a turn on than humiliating.

However, having to do my business away from the bathroom, on his order, is something I still find worthy of a blush and a cringe...especially when it's on a newspaper in the corner of the room - I'm cringing just thinking about it.