I have one rule I set for myself years ago before I had a D/s relationship, it was important that I set it for myself so that I could get to the point of allowing someone control.
My number one rule is I have to try anything my partner wants to try or do at least twice, I may not like it the first time around but after time goes by I may find out I really did it was just new.
I have been cuffed, spanked and tied up several times now every time I get gagged and I still hate the gag but Sir Daddy tells me to open my mouth and I don't question his athority nor do I complain, I thank him with every punishment.
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