Please feel free to e-mail me here, I do believe we may find a mutual interest. I am not wierd, not out of my head, have had insanely sensual but off the chart fantasies myself, and yes i too know the difference, the benefit i get from these, is that in my human sexual experience, I can better direct my true boundaries. I know my fantasies can dive into pretty disturbing things, but that's the thing.... it's ultimately the passage to find yourself...if you know your not going to do them. It's fine....really