I have a few ironclad rules that i must follow at all times. No exceptions ever.

1. complete honesty at all times. lies are punishable.
how can you have a safe, sane and consesual realtionship if you have no honesty. no honesty = no trust
Master like to know how i am feeling and what i am doing
2. There will be no disrespect of the Master at any time
verbal or physical-
no yelling, being rude, having hostile attitudes, or violence of any kind.
(i have trouble with the sassy/rude one on occasions)
3.Must obey all direct orders
these are the regular basic rules-
no panties
knowing my positions, and when to be in them
no cumming with out permission
must be shaved at all times
etc.
this list is and will always be at Master's discretion.
i do have advance notice of changes. lol
4.Treason
Meaning never divulging any information to outsiders (vanillas) that may not understand and cause harm to us or our families. Really this is a safeguard for us both. We both have children and families that are close.
Examples: telling friends (vanilla) not in the community, that i got caned for disrespect(or whatever). That would be a big bad NO. Private stuff stays private.
If someone is interested, Master and i feel them out and discuss together what to share or not to share.
If and when we should bring another into our relationship, the same will apply.

i also have different punishments to fit the crime, so to speak.