1) Writing tasks. Mostly lines. Unless you're looking for insight. Then ask for journal/diary entries. Nothing is private. weg

2) Time outs.

3) Time out with a single swat to the behind... so she knows what she is missing.



Make sure this isn't your issue. Is she being disobedient because she is craving attention? punishment even?

Since she's a masochist, give her a good beating now and then as a reward for good behavior.