Loyalty to self or Sir's wishes?

[Euryleia]

So... long story short I am a bisexual submissive... I submit to both men and women, but sometimes it's harder to submit to women, and before I committed to Sir I would have said I was a switch, sub to men but Domme to women. Sir has expressed that embracing the Domme part of my personality is a large turn off for him, so essentially I have attempted to ignore it. Basically my question is... if your Dom/me wanted to you essentially erase a part of your personality could and would you do it? Where is the line drawn?

I think you need to start by having two conversations--the first with your Sir and the second with yourself. You need to understand what he means by turn off (bellelapine is right that it might be your tone toward women). Once you understand his point of view, you need to reflect on your needs. Ask yourself if this is something that will make or break your relationship.

I know that I am not happy when I have to deny an essential expression of myself. I also know that I am willing to make compromises in order to make relationships work. You just have to find the right balance.

Do the two of you always play together? You might want to consider Domming women seperate from your Sir (not hiding the action from him but not doing it in his face).