Thank you for this post. I am curently invovled in an online D/s r/ship and I too am eager to meet in R/L. This post has helped me understand my eagerness a little better and it also has helped me realize that all we have is time. The learning process is continuous for me and I value the time we spend getting to know each other. I think it will only make it that much better once we do meet. Better to know what pleases Him when I see Him than be lost and disappointed. In truth I can say that I seriously doubt I would be disappointed by him, But I would not want to be the one to disappoint either! Maybe one day I can post something here about our meeting. Until then I will continue to learn and grow and get to know him day by day.