The situation is that before we entered our relationship I was considering not seeing men at all, either vanilla or in the scene, He being the exception to that rule, so I think he sees women as threatening to his hold over me.
Also, it's the idea of me being Dominant at all which is a turn off, I believe. I love him, and we are making life plans... but I don't know if this sacrifice is too much.
We tried me seeing a woman, even vanilla, and he was too possessive.