Quote Originally Posted by ragdoll View Post
The situation is that before we entered our relationship I was considering not seeing men at all, either vanilla or in the scene, He being the exception to that rule, so I think he sees women as threatening to his hold over me.
Also, it's the idea of me being Dominant at all which is a turn off, I believe. I love him, and we are making life plans... but I don't know if this sacrifice is too much.
We tried me seeing a woman, even vanilla, and he was too possessive.
Jealousy (a symptom? of possesiveness) is a real turn-off for me. Regardless if it's jealousy of another woman, a man, or time spent with friends, jealousy is both ugly and destructive to a healthy relationship.

You two need, or at least should want, to talk more about this.