yes great questions.

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Originally Posted by Warbaby1943
Anyway again I ask, is there always your Dominant and/or submissive needs that must be met first before you can have an enjoyable sexual encounter?


Here I agree with Ruby. but if playing I feel my subs sexual gratafacations come first. We don't have sex but here other needs for the D/s come first I want her to want more if the lifestyle and me (eveil grin.) right now she is a novice with a great thurst for the D/s .


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Can you get into the mood without these BDSM activities or at least thinking about them?


Oh yes she a great turn onto me Vanilla and Choc. D/s




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To my way of thinking, I believe that once you have become used to these BDSM activities, no matter what they are, you may need them to become aroused. This may depend on the intensity of those activities...


She a great turn on for me either way. Just hugging her from the front or from the back just make me rock hard and that not even D/s. She is such a Hot turn on for me it dosn't matter which way we go. hehe


MrDom