i think thats one of the things that makesthis site great , we do mentor each other here, i am allways willing to learn and grow, and allways willing to help out my fellow sistas in bondage,, heck sometimes ive even mentored some doms, even rehibilitated some wanna be's, but toot toot on my horn does nuthing, its actions that make the difference, keep at it everyone and fyre u are so right to hold out for the "right" dom, or domme,it will be so much more worth the effort, ive seen too many subs limit thier options to learn becuase they glommed unto the first dominate that came thier way and then stopped learning from or having contact with any others (ussually over territory issues) brought on by a jealous dom not wanting to see his sub talk to anyone but him etc, mentorship is the responsibility of u all, its called keeping the faith