Quote Originally Posted by deigja View Post
Aussiegirl: writing seems to be a really good idea, thanx,
and fetishdj: some really good ideas but i don´t think even that little bit of switch would please him or me... we already do have a safeword... still there is much for me to try, thank you both
All good to hear.

What sort of safeword do you have? Is it a simple 'stop altogether' one or do you use a traffic light style system?