Euryleia, Polaris Thank you both a lot. I will try to built his trust as much as he builds mine and I already took up Aussiegirls idea of writing by writing a short series of Scenes. I think I´ll have another go at them and if he allows will post them here in translation... just short episodes of perhaps half a page on what I could imagine to happen between the two of us.. all a mixture of what we already did and what I would like and alltogether rather harmless but just a way to start... I started this with three scenes to make a choice available to him and intend to send him some more...