hullo
just for this i soona know, mayhap 'tis just mi way, but i 'ave found that 'tis the wee things to serve that make it a personal relationship. for example, sometimes there is a task list like do laundry, pick up groceries, make meal... i look at it as serving is simply anticipateing whatever need and or fulfilling the ones that are specified. serveing is oft' i find, a matter of makeig your Dom/mes life/day easier. i hope this helps...