Great idea butterfly! I am also happy to mentor and or answer any questions.

I have experience with o/l mostly, and can certainly agree it is very, very real! I also have been very fortunate to have avoided the "snakes" at the start of my journey a few years ago. I am lucky to have two wonderful men, Tojo and Warbaby, in my life who have guided me and allowed me to explore my sub side in a safe and loving environment.