I suggest you do an all-inclusive checklist that uses the value rating on all possible activities.Originally Posted by greeneyes
The ratings will go from ''absolutely not going to happen'' all the way to the very things you hunger for in every scene.........your Master should study the list and devise plan to go by where your hard limits will not be breeched during a scene.
In the event your hard limits are too tame to give your Master the desired ''rush'' that is desired you can safely say the two of you are just not compatable........this is where you consider looking for another Master.