We got married because we loved each other and wanted it to a be a legal union. I was already collared to him when we were married and decided we wanted to make our love and life together more. Being married also on the legal side helps with our life insurance, health insurance etc. I became his slave wife when we got married but I would have always been his slave no matter what. We have been married 9 years in May and the marriage did not change the fact I was always his slave, it just made it legal in the vanilla world. Marriage is a legal union, being collared is a symbolic one to me. So we made our union symbolic and legal.

Yes I know it isn't the romantic answer you wanted but I live in reality and present things that way. Good luck to both of you. I hope you have a happy and healthy life together.