Cadence: I truly hope you find some freedom in your journals! It has really turned our relationship around! Love life!

Stripey: Thanks for the advice! I hadn't thought out the consequences of an open journal when I decided it was a good idea. When she had a bad day and did blast me for the first time. I was completely caught off guard. But having an entire day before we "talked". I had ample time to chill.
When we did talk, and I didn't go off the deep end, she REALLY relaxed about the whole process. Now I am just keeping a watchful eye for when she tests me. And she will.

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