Quote Originally Posted by kitara View Post
It's so sad to hear about so many who've been abused in their past; it's something that a person should never have to go through...

For me though, I'm submissive and nothing along those lines has ever happened to me, so perhaps it's a trait that's more within a person from the beginning?
I do agree with you hun, even before I was ever put with the family that abused me, I was the subserviant little one fussing over everyone in my family and wanting to make all happy hehe - it is still that lil gurl inside me wanting to come out and play again

It has since worried me to some extent that those abuses that I endured are large in nature those things that now highly turn me on *blushes*

Who knows, truly it's all relative - certainly our pasts helped define who we've become today but isn't (imo) the core of who we are born as

Welcome to the madness and thanks for sharing!