does she have a dominant side?

[Alex Bragi]

jump out in a gimpsuit and yell, "use me!!"

Ok, so I'm a sick little bunny, but this really tickled me! *ROFL*

I'm not sure I'm in favour of the such direct communication as to asking/telling her straight out. I think while a lot of women do have a latent dominant side, many would initially baulk at the idea of actually dominating a man--it's just the way many of us have been brought up believing that the man should always be on top--so to speak. *ss* I think subtly is the key. I also think as you get to know her better, you'll pick up on little things that will give you a fair indication of whether or not she tends towards being dominant.

Anyway.. good luck!