Originally posted by Pooka
But a dog collar??? Please!
I collared my wife with a dog collar and here's why:

It had nothing to do with humiliation. It was the simple fact that a dog collar at Wal-Mart costs about 55 dollars less than a leather collar with a D-ring at Dare Ware. I personally, at the time, didn't have the money to spend on a fancy collar so I got a cheap one. My reasoning was quite that simple.

NOW, she has a nice collar, of course. We can afford one now. So I got her a nifty silver thingie with bells. Looks nice and serves its purpose well.

I didn't mean to focus just on this one point in my reply, but it's the one thing I felt deserved an immediate response. I'll respond to the rest of your post after Coffee. LOL