it is understandably a challenge from the perspective of a new dominate to hold power over a more experienced submissive i can easily see how it could seem intimidating, try to rember though just becuase your new doesnt nessesarally mean you lack talent,

here are some tips from one thats been around the block so to speak:

1: be inovative, reaserch a lot on your own,, (like yu are doing now congrates)

2:have her write out or voice record all her experiences and or fantasies or better yet have her kneel in an exposed position (tail up face to floor works well) and "interrogate her" about them, asking her questions like this can be rather fun if yu want it to be

3:file away everything she tells you in that "elephant" brain so many dominates seem to have for future refference, it will cum in handy, and if yu wait long enough she may be surprised at the unique way yu bring some of those things to futition basically making her allways guessing never really knowing exactly whats in store, despite her past knowledge you will be in charge

4: last but not least, learn to read her responses, know thy subbie as well as if not better than yu know thyself,that way you will know if what your doing is exciting her or just the same ole cup of tea,as well as developing an even deeper connection to her, if she is really more experienced than u, she will love yu all the more for it

gets of my lil soap box and yields the floor to another,, hope this helps yu in yur endeavors, skips from the room tossing flowers a paga bota bouncing at my hip my ankelettes jingeling