Well... first, he can't publicly collar because we go to a tiny super conservative christian college that we live on its campus. Oregon is really open minded, our school just isn't! It would be rather uh... difficult to explain.
We are just going to the Oregon coast... your average hotel on the beach. And it's just going to be the two of us. So far, we've done the strap on deal, sissy play, collars, spanking. I was not only looking for public humiliation, no, but going away gives us the opportunity to do a little more of that without worrying about the effect on our education.
I know I don't HAVE to suprise him, but he's been good recently and I would like to reward him with some new stuff.He really actually likes humiliation and such, so it is not a punishment at all for him.