The velcro collar is the online collar, where you are wearing the collar one week, don't hear from the online Dom for another week and find out that he has collared another sub in the meantime. I used to be a member of The Slave Register and there are quite a number of "Doms" on there that I've known from Yahoo chat who have collared and uncollared a sub and then turned around and did the same thing two or three more times within one year. I knew subs on the TSR who have had several online Doms. mostly because the "Doms" have merely been players. Of course, some subs I've known have been players as well.