Having begun typing up a reply to this thread several times, I've decided to let it go.

Tom, you may disagree with my opinions, and that's your prerogative, however, they are just that; not "bullshit fears" that are "way out of proportion", or "justification of cowardice speaking", but simply my views as a free thinking woman.

And, gem, no, I'm not advocating that women should remain virgins until they're married or limit their options by Christian rules either--hell no.