First, I must say I know neither of you three. So I have to judge by what I know.

You sound to me as if your husband is not aware of your master´s request. It rather sounds you feel alone with this decision. That makes me wonder, to begin with. Did you speak with your husband? Or does your master ask you to have his child "secretly", meaning your husband should believe it was his own child?


Second, no matter how comfortable your husband is with your master, I doubt very much he would be comfortable with the idea of knowingly raising and financing someone else´s child if that was not his wish to begin with.
It will do harm to your family life. What will the child feel like?
Or are you planning to make the master the official father, child support and all?
Are you planning to tell the child why his father is a different one from the one his brother has, although you all live with the other Daddy?

It might be possible I come across as judgemental. I am not. I myself have one child, and decided to leave the father (who was an abusive asshole, I left him while I was still pregnant because he threatened to beat the child out of my belly if I left him... much good it did him!!), and met and married someone else a few years later.

BUT having someone else´s child while STILL BEING in an otherwise working relationship is taking it one step too far in my opinion.

I have the impression your master did not think about the consequences at all. I think asking a sub to have his child when he is not there to be the father, and help and support you in a good way, totally stinks, it is egomaniac, highly immature, and irresponsible.

Your health issues are not the point here! The problem is elsewhere.

But for the health issue - it sounds to me like having another child might risk your life. And if he pretends to "love" you and still asks you to risk your life - that leaves a bad taste.

I don´t like the idea that you are afraid to tell your master such a decision/fact, either. It should not be like that...

Just my opinion, of course.

Kind regards
Arria