i believe you said it in your signature....that's the biggest gift you're allowed to give to this man who is NOT your husband...

and by the way....you ARE married, remember?

it's fine that your hubby approves, but Master needs to get a grip on reality. HE is the 3rd wheel here...

regardless of your health problems, has anyone thought about the children? who would be raising Master's "Love Child"? is He moving in with you and the hubby?? or is He just going to kick in a few dollars for groceries every once in a while??

i'm sorry...Master's request is unreasonable, and a flat out "NO" is a perfectly legitimate response to the question....