Quote Originally Posted by nicole_oregon View Post

I am married, and I have a Master that my husband knows about and approves off, my husband and I have one child, a son who will be 3 in August...I will be 32 on Saturday and up untill this point I have been very happy with our arangement. The problem is, my Master now wantes me to have his child...I am very confused about this and I have told him that because of health reason (I had 3 blood clots in my right lung during the birth of my son) that it was advised by my doctor not to have any more children. I made peace with that and moved on...my questions it how do I tell my Master in plain terms that I do not want any more children and that I hope this does not come between our relationship...I dont think he fully accepts my desire not to have any more children.

Please help if you can..any and all advice or comments will be greatly appreated.

Thank You
You can't really sugar coat this. Tell him you love him and would hate to lose him, but this is a deal breaker. It's just one more thing on the (long) list of things you'll never do for him. If he can live with you not chopping off your arm for him...(which I assume you wouldn't do) he can live with this. Your blood clots doesn't really enter into it. You don't need an excuse to say "no" to a thing like this no matter how submissive you are. I understand it sucks not being able to give your master what he wants and telling him "just suck it up" isn't really in the submissive vocabulary.

You could always beg him never to mention children again? He needs to get that is a deal breaker. I suggest not making minor concessions because then he'll think its negotiable and only a matter of being more forceful.

I'm sure every D/s relationship is different, but it can be very hard for me to accept something that my slave thinks is a big deal, which I don't. He's not automatically a bad man just because he doesn't get what the "big deal" is.