Quote Originally Posted by Borgs_slave View Post
It is also a myth that all people in a poly family interact sexually with each other. Poly doesn't mean threesomes, it means a group of people that work together as a unit or family. Love isn't required for a monogamous D/s relationship and is not required for everyone in a poly family. I served a dominant couple for many years and was only property of the male dominant and only served him sexually. I didn't have sex or think about having it with the others. That is not what I was expected to do. That is why people communicate expectations before getting involved.

.... Poly isn't everyone running around being sexual with everyone else in the family. It isn't threesomes and sharing. it is a family unit that sets their own standards for what it is that is expected by all family members involved.
Thank-you this was my impression of poly households. I was just trying to explain why for me it would not work. And again I apologize to anyone who I offended or whose feelings I hurt. I was trying not to be judgemental. The only person who can judge these things is the individual for themself.