Is being Poly the same as having an "open" relationship? My Husband and i have sex with others. He is still my Master and i still obey but there are times i see someone and say to myself "i want a piece of that!" Of course we have rules, and there is never any BDSM involved unless He gives me over to another Dom which has yet to happen. We feel sex with others tightens our bond to each other and makes us love each other more. Who else can come home and tell their spouse "guess who i fucked today?" The truth is, i can't wait to get home and tell him in descriptive detail what went on in that hotel room. Then I get "punished" for being such a slut. (Which is actually me favorite part) I guess it is more of a game. We want each other to be happy and variety is the spice of life!