I apologize if I have read into your comments something which was not intended.

By the way, I do not have an aversion to munches, or fetish parties, or other gatherings. I merely stated that we are quite comfortable with our own activities and friends. In our city, these events are very well attended.

I certainly do commend you for looking and attending, and indeed wish you well in your search. I merely suggest that you not be hasty in passing judgement - an error which I seem to have committed.

Mea culpa.


ps. The quote - woodsman'sgame is the source. I came across it serendipitously just before coming across this thread. A karmic coincidence?