www.gurochan.net

it's rather japanese themed but it's definitely dealing with what you're talking about. i've forgotten the rest of the websites i used to know and i'm quite sorry about that. i had a close friend who had similar interests so you aren't the only one. He was an adorable person and as sweet as can be...so i don't think those interests are indicative of the quality of person you are. i hope you have better luck in finding people to talk to in the future.