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C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-I-O-N!

That is an easier word to spell than it is to embrace.

It sounds like you have devalued yourself a bit...at least to you.
Giving yourself to him is GREAT...if that is what he can command from you!
It sounds like you need to be VERY bad!...I'm thinking NEW SHOES just for a start! When he is really ready to be in control; he can take them out for you and leave them somewhere obvious...and you...being a good little sub should wear them and embrace special service. Shoe are definitely a great start! Being a Spoiled Brat could bring him around to his gloves for a great spankin'!

Your DOM may be highly turned on by power and not understand how to get there...a little bad behavior goes a long way in my house. It is a great reminder of who is in charge...and how difficult it is to relinquish control...and...how fun, hot and sexy D/s can be!

Don't give up! If he doesn't COMMAND your submissive attitude...then show him that it is something that he will have to earn.

Be Patient: It MUST be nice being in charge...but as any large responsibility, it takes input and preparation, consideration and commitment, and can be a large amount of work and stress. I mean really you "let" him tie you up, but he has to figure out all those quick release knots!

If he doesn't take charge, give him the ultimatum of you being in control...heh.


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