Quote Originally Posted by Flaming_Redhead View Post
As far as information about bondage, I'm of the opinion that it's not your job to provide him with the means to bind you. This is where I don't cut "dominants" any slack. If he wants to be a bondage top, then he needs to learn what the hell he's doing. The way I look at it is if he really wants to know how to tie a knot he can look it up himself. He has a responsibility to know what he's doing before he does it to you. If he's dominant, he should be taking the initiative, not you. In the meantime, you can either learn to be perfectly still so as not to frustrate him or keep wiggling until he decides he needs to figure out how to keep you still.
ok im not saying it is up to me and im sure He has looked into it but i know He gets frustrated and im tryin to help Him out becasue being bound is my fetish and the more frustrated He gets the less He does it and i want Him to like it too.. and i cant be perfectly still. its hard as shit when something hurts or feels really good to not move ya know.