Thank you for your post, denuseri. What you describe fits me and Demon perfectly.

*wonders* Were we separated at birth...lmao

I would balk at calling myself his property (though I melt when He tells others I am His most precious possession), but I do belong to Him, its unquestionable. He is not only dominant to the core, but absolutely self assured. When I test Him, it amuses Him or He nips it in the bud. He always rises to the challenge. While we are always D/s, I am also comfortable with Him; to laugh, to tease Him, to playfully talk back and to state my opinion categorically. The expression (topping from the bottom) was never mentioned. So it confused me as I had noticed that there is a large number of Doms who take offense (at such behavior) and would hate for them, for anyone, to misinterpret that as being disrespectful. I am free to be myself, He is capable to dominate me at my strongest and at my most willful (lol). I may be interpreting it wrong, but wouldn't holding myself back and holding in all the time, so he can feel more secure, be topping from the bottom?