We get sub drop do Dom/mes get a drop after play..??

[snowflake]

No... I still disagree with the concept.

We, or at least I, have a reaction but it is rarely a drop. Closer to a euphoria.

Drop is (usually) caused by the reaction to endorphins which are associated with pain and/or physical stress. So unless the dom is beating his subbie at a marathon-runner's pace.

This question closely relates to a previous discussion over Dom Space.

This from Yahoo

Pleasurable activities cause the release of endorphins, and this endorphin-rush can conceivably become..?
dependent
addictive
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Answer:

This is all true. Pleasurable activities also release Dopamine, which is actually more important than endorphins for certain behaviour.

Endorphins just give you a rush. Dopamine gives you a high AND makes you addicted.

So i guess now my question is: Is it more a Dopamine drop more so then a endorphin drop for Dom/mes?? As i am sure there is a lot of pleasure in play for the Dom/me as well or they just wouldn't be a Dom/me


But just as it is a stress on the sub to please her Dom/me during play can it not also be a stress to the Dom/me??

I mean if the Dom/me truly cares for his/her sub should he not be stressed whether he is giving them full pleasure or fulfilling their needs..?? Can that not be a stress that would cause a Dom/me drop as well?

Also just as in a marriage or bf/gf or any other kind of relationship .. can there not be stress in a D/s Relationship?? Always trying to make the other happy or content with the situation so you never break up or have problems?..??


Also, is it not possible to feel a bit of a drop if r/l has effected how you preform during play.. Does it not make you wonder if it effected how you gave and they received what you did.. and wonder if you feel let down let alone your sub..??

This is an article i found that kind of touches all of this ... Maybe it will clarify what i mean by this

http://www.steel-door.com/Dominant_Drop.html

One last thing.. Does a Dom/me not cause physical stress while tying someone up getting them in position and afflicting the pain by swinging the flogger and such..??

I know at times it can be quiet a work out...

Anyways just some thoughts after reading what has been said so far..

My opinion

Hugs
snow