What kind of Va-geegee do you have?

[bambina]

I was surfing the web earlier today and I found an article that was quite interesting to me. It was basically discussing what makes a crotch pretty or ugly.

http://www.wethole.co.uk/ugly.shtml

I felt this would be something interesting to discuss (since we are all mature adults) because I, like some other perhaps, made my way through the first half of high school without knowing what a vagina was supposed to look like (I had only seen my own). First off ladies, I wanted to know what kind of a Vagina you had. Look at the article (link) that I posted because each kind is categorized. This is something a lot of people don't talk about, which I feel is a shame. I remember I was a nervous wreck when I was young because I was afraid something was wrong with my crotch. Everyone in pictures (like porn and stuff) had thin lips and exposed pink parts and I felt weird. But After reading this article, I realize that there are several types of vaginas. Even in-side-out looking ones. I have a 'High Vulva With Closed Crack'. So basically I have fat lips that refuse to seperate even if I spread my legs. Now I know what men mean when they say 'fat pussy' (versus big pussy). But, of course, this sort of vagina comes with a curse. It's harder to find the feel-good spots because everything is hidden behind fat lips. But women with there labia exposed have no problem finding their outer sweet spots.

Guys, I'd like you to skim the article and tell me what kind of Vagina you find most attractive. I personally like the first one that is shown (pierced). It can do without the piercing but she has that little part exposed that I think looks good. What do you think Guys (and ladies too to be fair)?

[kuntslave85]

high vulva with opening crack...before use that is lol

[bambina]

Before use? You mean your vagina changes? To what (if I may ask lol because, being as inexperienced as I am, I'm curious about it all)?

[Walker_In_The_Wild]

Arousal, if I had to make a guess - or sexual games.

The penis isn't the only thing that inflates with blood upon sexual stimuli.

[bambina]

Oh. Well I guess I knew it swelled a bit.

[Walker_In_The_Wild]

I don't mean to be crude or pry, but haven't you ever been sexually aroused? I apologize if my question offends.

[bambina]

I have. That's why I know about the swelling. But the actual look of my crotch doesn't change. At least I don't think. I've never been aroused in front of a mirror.

[Walker_In_The_Wild]

Actually, I probably shouldn't have asked that. I apologize.

P.S. I'm new to the forums and don't know how to delete the above post. So I'm sorry.

[bambina]

Oh it's okay. No harm. And I like questions.

[Walker_In_The_Wild]

Then may I suggest that you examine your beauty while aroused? Pray tell, why were you ever worried about it?

[bambina]

Because when women change, it scares us. Or at least it scared me. I just wanted to make sure my change was happening the right way and nothing was going wrong. Like men who worried about their size. I worried about looks. Especially since so many people out their think the vagina is gross (the wetness, the look, the smells, etc..).

[Walker_In_The_Wild]

From your description I'd say all is well, Bambina. Your fear was, thankfully, unwarranted.
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I don't know what to say about those who think a vagina is distasteful to sight or touch, I've always found them. . . quite lovely.

May I ask to add you to my friends list before I head off for dinner? I've yet to make one here and I've so far enjoyed your posts.

-Vic

[bambina]

Yes you may

[Walker_In_The_Wild]

Then if you allow, I will speak to you later. Have a good evening, Bambina.

-Vic

[Euryleia]

Okay, I've got deflated outer lips crack open

As a connoisseur of the female form, I can tell you that the variety is limitless. I've had the privilege to study several, up close and personal and I can tell you that every one was different. The pussy is a wonderful, fabulous thing but it is the woman who owns it that brings the attractiveness to it.

You are a special and unique butterfly and if the gentlemen you've invited to your bed aren't willing to take to the time to explore your pussy to find all the feel good spot, you need to find another who are willing to do so.

[Asmodeuss]

As anyone familiar with Georgia O’Keefe’s painting's can tell
you every woman is like a flower unique in her own way and
imbued with a beauty only nature can create.

I Have had the privilege to enjoy many variety's of vagina
and i have found them all very pleasing each in their own
way so I can't say I prefer one type over another.

[fetishdj]

Its unusual that (apart from homosexuals and bisexuals) most members of a particular gender do not know what thier own gender's genitals are supposed to look like at all. This is because you generally only see one example whereas you are likely, in the course of a healthy sex life, to see several examples of the opposite sexs' genitals.

As for homosexuals well, as Geoff in Coupling says, 'Masturbation is practise'

Never ever ever take what is seen on films/TV as being anything like a reflection on real life. Casting directors for porn films do indeed select women with a particular style of vagina and these women are advised to keep them at least partially shaved to make them easier to see on film.

Personally, I have always preferred the added challenge of lots of hair and lips to work round to find the spots. Did you know you can in some women suck the entire lips into your mouth and suck it like a penis? You just have to be careful of your teeth and, if you are doing a 69 position, watch she doesn't do anything that will likely make your teeth clench...

[bambina]

That...is...amazing fetishdj. I did NOT know that and I can't believe something like that is possible. Wow.

[Ozme52]

I think this thread is worthless without pictures bambina.

[bambina]

lol ozme. The link I sent has an example of what mine looks like. Just picture it light brown.

[Ragoczy]

Personally, I have always preferred the added challenge of lots of hair and lips to work round to find the spots. Did you know you can in some women suck the entire lips into your mouth and suck it like a penis? You just have to be careful of your teeth and, if you are doing a 69 position, watch she doesn't do anything that will likely make your teeth clench...

That's right, you should be careful of your teeth and not bite too hard or clench ... unintentionally.

[In2kink]

Okay, I've got deflated outer lips crack open

As a connoisseur of the female form, I can tell you that the variety is limitless. I've had the privilege to study several, up close and personal and I can tell you that every one was different. The pussy is a wonderful, fabulous thing but it is the woman who owns it that brings the attractiveness to it.

You are a special and unique butterfly and if the gentlemen you've invited to your bed aren't willing to take to the time to explore your pussy to find all the feel good spot, you need to find another who are willing to do so.

My most hearty agreement! Actually I have seen many and no two are exactly alike. They are all unique and beautiful in their own special way just as are the women who have them. Each is like a mysterious and delicate flower and the soft, tender folds of each in its own right a joy to explore.

[Ozme52]

lol ozme. The link I sent has an example of what mine looks like. Just picture it light brown.

Example eggschample.

I want proof!!

[bambina]

lol....NO!

[Arria]

Hi bambina,

My hubby had lots of women before we married, and he said pussies all look different, so rest assured *lol*, you have no reason to worry at all.

I would not worry myself about "what sort of pussy do men like best", either.

If something was seriously misshapen with your vagina, I am positive your gynaecologist would have pointed that out to you long ago.


Either your partner likes what you have, or not. No need to breed additional insecurities!

[wingsofanangel]

I don't know which mine is.. lol..

Mine is perfectly fine though, looks normal and pretty much like all the others I've seen. My inner lips stay inside my outer ones... I suppose its a bit of the vulva area moved down and the pronounced pubic bone.... -shrug-

[kuntslave85]

use = arousal and then penetration, spanking etc

bambina...you need to find a D honey

[fetishdj]

That's right, you should be careful of your teeth and not bite too hard or clench ... unintentionally.

Oh well, *intentional* biting is a different matter. Though, in my experience, while many women can take biting on the nipples I have encountered few who enjoy biting on any part of the vagina... though I am sure many will now announce themselves

[blueeyes58]

I think they are all pretty shaven.

[snowflake]

I think this thread is worthless without pictures bambina.

Hmmmm.. why is it i always try to please Dom/mes..??

God knows

Smooth Lips and closed would be me..

just waiting on approval..

hugs
snow