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As a connoisseur of the female form, I can tell you that the variety is limitless. I've had the privilege to study several, up close and personal and I can tell you that every one was different. The pussy is a wonderful, fabulous thing but it is the woman who owns it that brings the attractiveness to it.
You are a special and unique butterfly and if the gentlemen you've invited to your bed aren't willing to take to the time to explore your pussy to find all the feel good spot, you need to find another who are willing to do so.