@ AdrianaAurora: Exactly. As a matter of fact, my hubby has been using his nick dorsch in smallcaps all over the web since the early 90īs, and he sees no reason why he should change it to make some idiots happy (now is that a Dom quality? lol).

He would not expect me to have even-smaller caps *giggles*, he really couldnīt care less.

He knows he has my respect and affection and love in REAL LIFE; he knows I am not going to let anyone else "collar" me, not even online - he does not share well, lol -, and as long as that is guaranteed, I am free to be under my own name with whatever caps I want.

What shuts such stupid know-it-alls up quite quickly is exactly that: That I do as my Dom wants me to, and obey no one else.
(They do not dare to encourage me to go against his will for some reason.)

As for the titles thing: I think it would be nice, at least in play, to use a title, because I like the idea a lot, sometimes - but whenever I tried it, it just made us both laugh a lot, so well, it is not his thing, and does not work. *g*

Oh well, I call him "Massa Bwana" if I am teasing him... and yes, THAT has painful consequences. *grins*

I figure the smallcaps/collar-name thing might have more significance/importance for the online-only crowd, because they lack all the options a real life commitment has.