Quote Originally Posted by geossub View Post
When I first met my husband he told me about the BDSM lifestyle.
Well I've gotten to the point where I just completely gave myself to him and now he's acting like he has no idea what he's doing. He expects me to come to him to get things started and if I don't then he gets upset but I can't read his mind. Isn't he the one who's supposed to tell me what he wants? I'm very frustrated and bored and hurt. What do I do?
You talk it out with him. There are no universal rules. You just have to talk with each other, and get the expectations and the 'hows' of it all sorted.