Confusion about my role...

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=Kansas Badman;699878]

The submissive has only to give up control of her body and allow her mind to become one with the moment. She lets the experience come to her. She is the one being dominated. She doesn’t have to actually do anything!



Wow! All I can say is that is biggest load of poo!!




Don’t blame your husband for fading on you here. Most do, especially in a marriage situation.
Again I will just refer to my poo comment.


[QUOTE][/QUOTE]Marriage combined with BDSM is like expecting the magician’s helper to always be thrilled and amazed by the master’s illusions while at the same time expecting the master to come up with new tricks every night. That’s a difficult thing to keep going over the life of a marriage. This may be why the majority of both doms and subs are single: they need to be free to move on when the thrill fades.

Do you have stats to prove your theory? I know many M/s couples including myself that have been married a long time and are quite happy

Don’t get me wrong; there are many examples of married couples that somehow manage to pull together in combined total BDSM happiness. It’s just that there are far more who don’t.


Again do you have stats or is this just your own ramblings?

You are so way off and seem to promote myths more than truths bad , bad advice for someone new and looking for help.