When I was 17, I began my first sexpoloration into the kinkier side, with a rather willing woman, who was 7 yrs my senior. Yes she was the first to bring up tying me up, (what a night, she learned the headboard wasnt as strong as she thought) But that first taste led to some reading, and finding the kinky stories as well as magazines ( it was the early 80's). We tried some things, but, I also learned that as fun as kink maybe, Some women arent into it all the time. After that relationship ended, I learned not to rush things, and let my SO take things at thier pace.

When I met my wife, We did alot to broaden her sexual horizons, and adding a little kink here and there worked out great. We enjoyed a great deal, from Vanilla to the spicer side as well.. Then we got our first computer and opened up the windows, and doors to the internet... And I came to findout as much as I thought I knew, and considered my self unshockable... I was Shocked!!

A great deal of what I learned then, I can only compare to losing virginity.. You may think you know the mechanics, but the actual experience just doesnt compare. The info, the pictures, the stories.. The real life sexperiences... THE IDEAS!!!

When I found my way here, and to be honest I dont remember where the link was.. We had talked about, and were trying some BDSM. I signed up and read threads. Unlike the other boards out here on the net, this is more a community than just random threads. I have seen the chat rooms on AOHell, the "bitch Boards", but none give the sense of welcome, and the honest reasoning, that this board does.